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Teasing Out The Knots

  • Nov. 8th, 2009 at 10:58 AM
Star Goddess

There has been a huge amount of traffic, both in blog spheres and the mainstream media, about the proposed new regulations affecting electively home educated children in England over the past few months. Much of it has ended up with some truly despicable spin being perpetrated by the UK Gov, in order to make their viewpoint seem rational. This has resulted in some epics fails in factual understanding of the issues, perhaps the most appalling being the moment Victoria Climbie's torture and death was linked to home education. By an 'expert'.

In the light of how high feeling, and Government spin, is running, I felt it useful to try and tease out some of the knots that have so many people tied up so tightly - in both directions. The biggest knot, I feel, is that it all seems so... rational. What the Government says, looks to innocuous and rational , that most people are simply bewildered when others scream and shout about oppression and civil liberties and human rights.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, a report has been prepared stating that, as law, home education needs tight control and regulation.  Two main reasons are cited for this.

1) To protect home educated children from child abuse

2) To ensure all home educated children receive a good education

Now, the problem with this, particularly for the man in the street, or even on an omnibus in Clapham, is that is look perfectly reasonable.  Utterly, utterly rational.  Any 'right minded' person is going to look at that and say "Quite Right" and move on.

If you object, and say "hang on, that's just not on..." you will be looked at like a social deviant, who clearly has something to hide.  "What's that, you don't agree that children should be protected from child abuse?  You think it's okay for kids to be kept at home, locked and beaten and made to do housework and not learn to read, whilst their suffering goes unheard?"  "ARE YOU A MONSTER?"

So to object to the premise, is to object to children being protected.  You are, indeed, a monster.

But it only looks reasonable, if a sleight of hand is in place.  And most people are not spotting the sleight of hand.  They're going straight to the kids, and their minds are flashing the horrible horrible memories of Maria Cauldwell, of
Victoria, of Tyra Henry, of Baby Peter.  And once those children have flashed into their minds, that's it - THE CHILDREN WILL BE PROTECTED... and all rational response stops.  Because the connection looks reasonable.  But it isn't.

It's not reasonable.

And it's not reasonable because home educators do not abuse their kids.  It's not reasonable because home educated kids are not hidden.  It's not reasonable because some kids are so damaged by school that home education is safer for them.  No, none of these actually apply.

It's not reasonable because... there is no connection between child protection and education.

This debate, binds and ties and twists and blends these two elements together, and tries to suggest they relate to each other.  There is no connection.  Child safety has nothing to do with education.  Formal education is just something that happens to kids as they get older.

Child safety, and the check and balances, and the safe guards and procedures... exist regardless of education, regardless of school.  The child safety procedures are imbedded in all medical and health contacts, from before birth.  They are a net of connections between every Government employee who connects with you on anything to do with health and well being.  They have nothing to do with school, or school, or education.

Trying to get this over to people, that this is a twisting of how the worlds already works, this view that schooling is an element in child protection, is very hard.  Partly, because as a society we've grown used to dumping everything at the school door and demanding teachers do it.  Every scrap of information and skills we deem all children should know - we dump over to the teachers and scream if it doesn't happen.  Schools are now in the business in extremely deprived areas, of teaching children to toilet, speak and eat.  Every year, 4 and 5 years olds who are still in nappies, cannot talk and only eat mush and milk, are presented to the school system.  That's an extreme example.. but it's accurate.  It does happen.  We think it's entirely reasonable that school, and teachers, do everything.  

This is not reasonable.    It is not the job of school, and teachers, to raise children.  

It is their job to educate them.  Certainly, they do have an eye out for child protection, and if there is a suspicion of a problem... what do schools do?  They bring into operation the ... child protection system.  The one already in place.  The one that has been in place for that child, since before they were born.  

The system that already exists.  The one every child, even those outside school, is already in.  The one that exists, and the one that does not disappear like magic *poof* when the child has its fifth birthday.

Confused?  Hmm.. let me try it like this.  Let's look at the proposition, that school protects you from child abuse, and all children must be protected, as we don't know what is going on at home.  Let's journey to Maria's house, and examine her pathway as a responsible adult, ensuring her child at home is kept safe by going to school...

Ding Dong )

 







Good Luck!

  • Nov. 1st, 2009 at 2:41 AM
Star Goddess
 Good Luck to everyone doing NaNoWriMo.

Break a leg!  ;-)
Star Goddess
 Please Help…..?

“This is an appeal on behalf of the British Neanderthal Party.” It was a simple headline on a flyer, but it brought me to realise more about myself than I could have possibly realised. I read further: “Few people realise it, but over the eons, the indigenous population of Ice Age Britain, have slowly been eroded from view. Hidden, abused and voiceless, the Neanderthal population amongst us, have declined terribly.” 

Like most of my peers, I’m ashamed to say, I needed to know more. So I reached out, and contacted the leader of the BNP, and asked for an interview. A request, I’m happy to say, that was granted. Now I sit and listen to the homonoid himself…

“Now, in more enlightened times, many are working to save the last few relics of Our Glorious Past, and we need your help.” says Dick Mythic-Creature, the leader of this lost tribe. I interviewed Dick in a rare moment of him enjoying his natural habitat: a cave on the outskirts of Barnsley. The cave is dank, dark and very cold. Dick apologises for not lighting a fire for me “My people hadn’t invented fire before the invaders came” he explains eloquently “and so we maintain the cold in order to honour our dead.” A tear slides from the end of his nose. “Ice is very close to our hearts, and souls.” He pauses for a moment, to wipe the tear away, before continuing…

“The really sad part is that many people think the Neanderthals are extinct. The hegemonic control of the ruling class, homo sapiens, has obliterated us from the historical record. But it’s not true, we are here, we have always been here…” Dick’s voice clearly shows his pain, and the pain of his people. I root in my bag and offer him a raw rabbit leg, which he accepts with touching honesty.

We move on to practicalities, and Dick, known as ‘three grunts’ within his own people, explains why the appeal is so vital to the survival of the precious Neanderthal children scampering at our feet. I lean down to pat one on the head, and then wrap my bleeding fingers in a clean hanky, before continuing the interview. 

“We need more DNA testing, really, and that’s so expensive.” “DNA?” I ask. “Oh yes, DNA testing is vital to our cause. There has been so much .. mixing… of the races, we can hardly tell one from the other, these days.” Once more, the pain in his voice is clear. “In order to find, and protect, our indigenous genetic heritage, we have to use more sophisticated methods than previously. In fact,” his voice drops in pain “we have to use the technology of our oppressors.” I wait for a few moments whilst Dick collects his thoughts. “In fact, the oppression is so complete, I even have to use spoken language to communicate with you.” I’m shocked at my own insensitivity, that it never occurred to me to learn grunting, and I share that with Dick.

“I’m glad you’re beginning to see it, the sheer level of the problem we have. The sheer level of homo sapian privilege. Talking, reading, writing.. rational thought... it's almost overwhelming the barriers we have to overcome.” He collects his strength, and carries on. “We once thought we could easily tell our own people. There were clear signs. White skin, from the reflection of the Ice, our true spiritual home, and the knowledge we were somehow different from others. But it’s become so … complicated… especially when the homo sapiens have law courts and police. Which they use to oppress our natural instincts to protect and survive. No, we must be sure of our own purity. DNA testing is the only way… and then, then we will collect all our true people… and fight for a homeland for us all!”

Dick’s voice rings out in the caverns, and is greeted by clamouring, bone banging and grunting on the frigid darkness. He settles back down into his thermal wrap. “We will have a homeland, you know. A place we can call our own. Somewhere clean, and free from the tools of oppression. Where the indigenous people of these noble islands can watch Eastenders in peace.”

I decide not to challenge this last statement. Who am I to decide what these noble savages of ice decide is, and isn’t, part of their own indigenous culture? As if reading my mind, Dick continues.. “We want Phil Mitchell tested first, you know. It’s obvious he’s indigenous, don’t you think?” 

As I clamber back out of the cave, down into the muddy hollows and guttered reaches of civilisation.. what a hollow word that is for some of us?... I know that I must reach out to others. So please, do help. Donate to the British Neanderthal Party. Everyone deserves their own homeland, and with enough money, we can find an ice planet of their own, for them, soon.

Dyson Rocks

  • Oct. 22nd, 2009 at 12:08 PM
Star Goddess
 We bought our Dyson at some point in the early 1990s. Who remembers why you by a vacuum cleaner, several years later? Prolly 1993. Since then, it's done epic, continuous service. We bought one with hepa air filters, and thus less actual storage cylinder. This one:  

I never ever got round to changing the air filter. Over the years, the machine did start to show wear and tear. The 'prop it up straight on a handle' gizmo fell off. The head piece got cracked. The hose started to wear thru. I always intended to get it reconditioned by Dyson, which I knew was cheaper than buying a new one, but it was always more money than I had. It never once ever operated with less than it's original power. The machine still worked, it's just that bits literally wore through.

Last month, with the house move looming, and the new place having more carpet to be cleaned than I dare to think about, I looked at buying a new Dyson. The prices rushed me back to the servicing option.

For approx 64 quid, a man came to our house, in a van. He stripped and reconditioned our dyson. He put on new electric leads, new head piece and the twirly head bit. He ordered a new hose, a new hose container and an entire new wand. In the time since I bought mine, the hep air filter had become washable - so that was fitted too. All free of charge.

The only thing the service will charge extra for is the accessories - the different shaped heads that slot on the end of the hose. I have all mine. So I have, to all intents and purposes, a completely new Dyson, with a 12 month warranty, for 64 quid.

If you need a new vacuum cleaner - find an old Dyson, on freagle or wherever. Even if it's broke. Then pay Dyson their flat fee to come and remake it for you. The flat fee is higher on some machines, I think it goes up to 89 quid. Some Dysons are really big and bulky, but some, like ours, are smaller and very diddly to use. It's worth finding the right sort of size. But why, ever, buy a new vacuum cleaner of any type, when you can get an older one remade for a fraction of the price!!!!

Dyson are awesome. :-))))))
 

Rest In Peace, Mercedes....

  • Oct. 18th, 2009 at 12:51 AM
Star Goddess
Mercedes Sosa

Mercedes Sosa performing in Istanbul, Turkey, in 2003. Photograph: Kerim Okten/EPA

 

Mercedes Sosa, the celebrated Argentinian folk singer and political activist, has died aged 74. Sosa possessed a deep, alto voice and a strong sense of conviction, and had a warm, engaging personality. These qualities helped to make her one of the few Latin American musicians who could, over five decades, command a wide international audience. Described as "the voice of Latin America", she was revered as a commentator on the political and social turmoil that afflicted the region.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/2009/oct/05/mercedes-sosa-obituary

 

Joss Whedon's Equality Now speech

  • Oct. 4th, 2009 at 4:16 PM
Star Goddess


"So, why do you write all these strong women characters?"

Now That Women Can Work....

  • Sep. 23rd, 2009 at 8:12 PM
Star Goddess
 .. as a phrase, drives me bat shit crazy. Women have always worked. Comments in journals, blogs, in the papers, about how breastfeeding issues arise because "women can now work" and linking the fight for breastfeeding support to women "now being allowed in the work place" press a very big button in my head, my mind, my soul. Women have always worked.

Ask Patience Kershaw:

Testimony of Patience Kershaw
(Frank Higgins)

It's good of you to ask me, Sir, to tell you how I spend my days
Down in a coal black tunnel, Sir, I hurry corves to earn my pay.
The corves are full of coal, kind Sir, I push them with my hands and head.
It isn't lady-like, but Sir, you've got to earn your daily bread.

I push them with my hands and head, and so my hair gets worn away.
You see this baldy patch I've got, it shames me like I just can't say.
A lady's hands are lily white, but mine are full of cuts and segs.
And since I'm pushing all the time, I've got great big muscles on my legs.

I try to be respectable, but sir, the shame, God save my soul.
I work with naked, sweating men who curse and swear and hew the coal.
The sights, the sounds, the smells, kind Sir, not even God could know my pain.
I say my prayers, but what's the use? Tomorrow will be just the same.

Now, sometimes, Sir, I don't feel well, my stomach's sick, my head it aches.
I've got to hurry best I can. My knees are weak, my back near breaks
And then I'm slow, and then I'm scared these naked men will batter me.
But they're not to blame, for if I'm slow, their families will starve, you see.

Now all the lads, they laugh at me, and Sir, the mirror tells me why.
Pale and dirty can't look nice. It doesn't matter how hard I try.
Great big muscles on my legs, a baldy patch upon my head.
A lady, Sir? Oh, no, not me! I should've been a boy instead.

I praise your good intentions, Sir, I love your kind and gentle heart
But now it's 1842, and you and I, we're miles apart.
A hundred years and more will pass before we're standing side by side
But please accept my grateful thanks. God bless you Sir, at least you tried.

http://www.victorianweb.org/history/ashley.html

No. 26. — Patience Kershaw, aged 17, May 15.

My father has been dead about a year; my mother is living and has ten children, five lads and five lasses; the oldest is about thirty, the youngest is four; three lasses go to mill; all the lads are colliers, two getters and three hurriers; one lives at home and does nothing; mother does nought but look after home. All my sisters have been hurriers, but three went to the mill. Alice went because her legs swelled from hurrying in cold water when she was hot. I never went to day-school; I go to Sunday-school, but I cannot read or write; I go to pit at five o'clock in the morning and come out at five in the evening; I get my breakfast of porridge and milk first; I take my dinner with me, a cake, and eat it as I go; I do not stop or rest any time for the purpose; I get nothing else until I get home, and then have potatoes and meat, not every day meat. I hurry in the clothes I have now got on, trousers and ragged jacket; the bald place upon my head is made by thrusting the corves; my legs have never swelled, but sisters' did when they went to mill; I hurry the corves a mile and more under ground and back; they weigh 300 cwt.; I hurry 11 a-day; I wear a belt and chain at the workings, to get the corves out; the getters that I work for are naked except their caps; they pull off all their clothes; I see them at work when I go up; sometimes they beat me, if I am not quick enough, with their hands; they strike me upon my back; the boys take liberties with me sometimes they pull me about; I am the only girl in the pit; there are about 20 boys and 15 men; all the men are naked; I would rather work in mill than in coal-pit.

This girl is an ignorant, filthy, ragged, and deplorable-looking object, and such an one as the uncivilized natives of the prairies would be shocked to look upon.

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The next time you either write, or read, a phrase about how women are now allowed out to work. Could you think of Patience Kershaw and try and remember you mean privileged women who wanted the same employment opportunites as their privileged men?

WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS WORKED.

Flist Cull

  • Sep. 9th, 2009 at 11:17 AM
Star Goddess
 I've never done a cull, but I'm going to do one later on.  I've a lot of people in my flist, who are travellers in and out, and I'm travellers in and out on their journals. 

The move means I'm going to be doing a lot of posts that are deeply personal to my family, and discuss the local area and the charity that is going to be renting our flat to us.  I'm not comfortable doing that on a wide band, and I'm not comfortable selecting a filter for something so major.

I've screened comments here.  If you're happy to be unflisted, or very passionate about NOT being unflisted, respond.  If you come in in several weeks time, notice I'm not in your feed, and look back to find this public post, respond.  I appreciate you all, but I just need to take more care of my personal thoughts and I have no clue who some of you really are, as you no longer post or I haven't had time to read.

Can my 'core' not drown me in a chorus of "Don't deflist me!"  As if.  ;-)

For those who still want to keep up with me on less intense level - come to me on facebook.  I post loads on there, so that's my 'in touch with people' space.  Here is my personal and private space.  If you don't post much, and you rarely catch my posts, facebook is the better place for you and I to meet up.   I hesitate often to post about personal stuff as I'm not sure who is listening anymore, and I miss my LJ.  I want it back.

http://www.facebook.com/morgan.gallagher?ref=name

If you've just read the above and thought "Actually, Id' prefer to be on the Facebook feed and not the LJ one." please have the courage to say so!  Unflist yourself and find me on facebook (but say who you are on the friend request on Facebook.!)


Montreal

  • Aug. 2nd, 2009 at 9:24 PM
Star Goddess
 As some of my flist drift over the Atlantic... I'm finding myself longing for Montreal.

Have fun all of you!  And someone buy Farah a drink on me!  :-)

Nine Hysterical Women

  • Aug. 1st, 2009 at 5:13 PM
Star Goddess
 

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